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The How-To Guide on Getting the Sex Your Love Life Deserves
The 4 Intimacy Styles Companion Course
Developed by Dr. Viviana Coles, Intimacy Expert and author of The 4 Intimacy Styles, this course is an intimate couples experience filled with thought-provoking exercises to significantly improve your physical connection with your partner.
"She has a wealth of knowledge and tools to help couples navigate through their rocky road."
~ S.F.
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This course is for you if...
You're in a loving, but sexless, committed relationship
You're feeling frustrated and resentful that your intimacy needs aren't being met
You're arguing with your partner because you can't get on the same page about sex
Your shame and guilt over the state of your sex life is causing you distres
The 4 Intimacy Styles Companion Course can help.
Learn
The keys to creating spark that keeps your partner coming back for more
Develop
Sexual communication skills that lay the foundation for continued growth as a couple
Gain
A deeper understanding of your partner's needs that leads to more desire and frequency
What's Inside Your Companion Course Experience?
A better love life is 4 modules away.
Module 1
Seeking Intimacy
Begin to understand how different Attachment Styles affect your ability to connect with your partner over time
Clearly define intimacy and how it will help you grow stronger as a couple
Identify your boundaries surrounding intimacy and develop meaningful communication around them
Module 2
Peeling Back the Layers of Intimacy
Understand the different factors that impact our ability to connect intimately with ourselves and others
Redefine the mindset you need to become more secure in your relationship
Break free from the reward or punishment style that may negatively impact both your physical and emotional intimacy
Module 3
The Key to Lasting Physical Intimacy
Explore the different intimacy styles so that you and your partner can both give and receive intimacy in mutually healthy and pleasurable ways
Lay the groundwork for understanding yourself and the heart of your intimacy style
Learn how to "round out" or embody elements of the various styles to maximize your connection
Meet Dr. Viviana
Rounding Your Intimacy Style
Create a well-rounded approach to intimacy that resonates with you and your partner
Deepen your connection and enhance the overall quality of your relationships by embracing your partner's unique approach to intimacy
Learn the secret behind sexual compatibility
Put it all into action (hopefully in the bedroom)
Wall of Love, Testimonials
"I received tools to strengthen my communication in my marriage and my husband learned how to be a better communicator as well. She has also given me hope during this rough period in my marriage."
~ A Real Client
"Dr. Coles is amazing. I was immediately comfortable talking to her. She has a unique way of getting to the heart of the issues very quickly. I have talked to several therapists in the past, and not one of them was anything like Dr. Coles."
~ A Real Client
"Dr. Coles is a true professional. She will provide you the tools to get on the right track to begin the healing process in your marriage."
~ A Real Client
"She's attentive, her recall is great, she gives great advice, and helps mediate issues in my relationship and personal life. I used to dread therapy and I was quite nervous before sessions, but now I have a sense of safety and comfort with Dr. Coles."
~ A Real Client
"I received tools to strengthen my communication in my marriage and my husband learned how to be a better communicator as well. She has also given me hope during this rough period in my marriage."
~ A Real Client
"Dr. Coles is amazing. I was immediately comfortable talking to her. She has a unique way of getting to the heart of the issues very quickly. I have talked to several therapists in the past, and not one of them was anything like Dr. Coles."
~ A Real Client
"Dr. Coles is a true professional. She will provide you the tools to get on the right track to begin the healing process in your marriage."
~ A Real Client
"She's attentive, her recall is great, she gives great advice, and helps mediate issues in my relationship and personal life. I used to dread therapy and I was quite nervous before sessions, but now I have a sense of safety and comfort with Dr. Coles."
~ A Real Client
Meet Dr. Viviana
Dr. Viviana Coles, DMFT | Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | Certified Sex Therapist | 20+ Years Experience
Dr. Viviana Coles is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 20 years of clinical experience helping couples and individuals build deeper, more fulfilling intimate relationships.
As the creator of The 4 Intimacy Styles framework and the VIVID method, she's helped thousands of couples understand their unique connection patterns and transform their relationships from the inside out.
You may recognize her from her work as a relationship expert on Married at First Sight, or from her appearances on major networks including ABC, NBC, and FOX.
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What's Included
When you invest in the 4 Intimacy Styles Companion Course, you get everything you need to rebuild your physical connection with your partner...
01
Module 1
Seeking Intimacy
The Role of Intimacy
Benefits of Intimacy
The Evolution of Intimacy
Barriers to Intimacy
Defining Intimacy
The Illusion of Permanence
02
Module 2
Peeling Back the Layers of Intimacy
The Mind-Body Connection
Sexual Disconnect
The Fragility of Intimacy
Reward v. Punishment in Intimacy
Sexual Pleasure
03
Module 3
The Key to Lasting Physical Intimacy
Understanding Intimacy Styles
The Giving Intimacy Style
The Bonding Intimacy Style
The Responsive Intimacy Style
The Release Intimacy Style
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Module 4
Rounding Out Your Intimacy Style
Balancing and Blending Intimacy Styles
Navigating Intimate Connection
Embracing Your Partner's Intimacy Style
Sustaining Curiosity and Excitement
The Myth of Sexual Incompatibility
Frequently Asked Questions
A: Intimacy is the deep sense of closeness and connection between partners. It involves emotional and physical bonds that foster a sense of security and mutual understanding. By clearly defining intimacy, our course helps couples recognize its importance and work towards strengthening these bonds, ultimately leading to a more resilient and fulfilling relationship. If you want to have a fulfilling, long-term monogamous relationship, physical intimacy must be present.
A: If you are experiencing frustration, resentment, or conflict due to unmet intimacy needs, this course provides tools and insights to address these issues. It helps you understand the root causes of intimacy problems and offers practical strategies to enhance your relationship's emotional and physical closeness. Whether you're in a loving but sexless relationship or struggling to get on the same page about intimacy, this course can bring about meaningful change.
A: While it's beneficial if both partners participate, you can still make significant progress on your own. The course provides you with the knowledge and skills to improve your own understanding of intimacy, set healthy boundaries, and communicate more effectively. Often, positive changes in one partner can inspire the other to engage and participate over time.
A: Understanding your attachment style, intimacy preferences, and communication strategies can greatly enhance your future relationships. The course helps you build a solid foundation for intimacy, making you more prepared and secure when you enter a new relationship.
A: While every situation is unique, this course offers tools that can help you and your partner understand each other better, improve communication, and address underlying issues that may be contributing to your relationship struggles. If both partners are willing to work on the relationship, this course can provide a pathway to healing and reconnection. Sometimes, just addressing the missing pieces in your relationship can help you to come up with a plan for how to start to reconnect.
A: You'll definitely get the most out of the course if you also read the book and vice versa. But, the concepts covered in the course are meant to help your relationship on their own.
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