Alexa and Carlos Penavega | POP Love with Dr. Viviana

Desire Discrepancy in Marriage: Alexa and Carlos Penavega’s Honest Moment

In a recent interview, Alexa Penavega revealed a vulnerable moment in her marriage when her husband Carlos admitted to praying about his sex drive. The two opened up about what it’s been like navigating differences in desire—and how they’ve chosen to face it as a team.

In this episode of POP Love, I share how their honesty sheds light on a common challenge many couples face: desire discrepancy in marriage.

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What Alexa and Carlos Teach Us About Desire Discrepancy in Marriage

So many couples feel alone when desire levels don’t match. But you’re not broken—you’re human. What matters most is how you work through it.

1. Vulnerability invites healing

Carlos praying about his sex drive shows that desire isn’t just physical—it’s deeply emotional and spiritual for many. Being honest without shame is a powerful first step.

2. Communication builds connection

Alexa and Carlos didn’t hide from the issue. They talked through it, honored their differences, and reaffirmed their commitment.

3. Desire is dynamic

Sex drive changes over time due to stress, hormones, health, and life transitions. Addressing it together helps keep the relationship strong.

Struggling With Desire Discrepancy in Marriage?

You're not alone. If you're navigating this challenge in your own relationship, I created something just for you.

Send a DM with DESIRE DISCREPANCY to @poploveshow and I’ll send you my 10 MUST-ASK QUESTIONS for couples dealing with differing libidos.

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